When my best friend decided to leave the school.

Memories Stay, People Don’t

We often hear the phrase, “Memories stay, people don’t,” but I truly realized its meaning one day when my best friend texted me:

“Hey, I’m leaving the school.”

At first, I thought it was a prank, as I was used to such jokes from her. But then she sent me a picture of her new admission card.

In that moment, I was overwhelmed, unsure of how to respond. We had spent nearly three years together, and it wasn’t easy for me to process her departure.

I decided not to reply immediately because I was confused about what to say. But eventually, I texted, “Great.”

She responded, “Is that really great for you?”

I replied, “What else am I supposed to say now?”

Then, we both went offline.

This experience made me realize that we all face similar moments in life when we have to let people go. These moments test our ability to adapt to change, which is an essential part of life.

The Test of Life
It’s always recommended to face these challenges head-on, whether you win or lose. Let’s prepare ourselves for such tests, because life can surprise us at any time.

Accept the Reality
The best way to handle life’s challenges is to first accept them as they are. When we accept things, it becomes easier to move forward.

Many people neglect this practice or overcomplicate situations by labeling them as either negative or positive. This only adds more stress. To avoid this, take a deep breath, accept reality, and move on.

Tip
Avoiding challenges will only make them reappear later on.

Time to Realize You Are Brave
In difficult times, people often feel helpless, especially when they overthink the situation. As someone once said, “Some people lose their power just by assuming they don’t have any.”

Remember, you are capable of facing challenges. When you feel uncertain, recall past challenges you’ve overcome. This will remind you of your strength and resilience.

Look from Different Perspectives
We often view situations only from our own perspective, which can lead to misunderstandings. To avoid this, take a step back and try to see things from others’ points of view. This helps you make better decisions.

Give Some Time
In today’s fast-paced world, we often expect instant results. But our minds need time to process new experiences. Patience is key. When we give ourselves time, our minds will gradually accept reality and guide us toward better decisions.

Distance Doesn’t Matter
There are countless people who live far from their loved ones, yet their love and care remain strong. If the foundation of your relationship is built on trust and understanding, distance will not weaken it.

Focus on Your Growth
The most important relationship you can have is with yourself. Invest time and effort into nurturing this relationship, as it contributes to your personal growth more than any other connection.

So, never underestimate your potential. You have the power to create meaningful change in your life by focusing on your own growth.

Thank you for reading my thoughts. I hope my words resonated with you.

Best of luck on your journey ahead!


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Roopdeep

Hi everyone, I'm Roop. I’m currently a student and blogger. I hope you like my articles as they all are my life lessons I share with you all to help in some way. If they do help, please let me know in the comment section. Please do not hesitate to share your valuable suggestions.

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32 Comments

  • Well ! Well ! Well !

    Finally you’re back @roopdeep_blogger with some real fact that everyone face in their journey of life 🙂 helpful valuable points been described as you have experienced this situation and realised it deeply . Great work ?? And keep your fans happy ?

  • Hatts off to your writings….. really loved you articles alot? today your this article brought tears in my eyes❤
    Always keep writing in the same way.
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  • Great ? that article is very helpful for who away from the closets people .i proud of you
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  • Hy? roop ?ur this article reminds my past tm whn my bsti ?leaves school tht tm i felt alone? and thought that i? had lost my special ?prson but after reading ur✌ article i made myslf? more strong gbu dear an all the bst for ur future ??shine lke a star?

  • Well written Roop. A good help article. However next time I expect to see a article on a lighter topic. All the best!!

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