Memories stay people don’t.
We frequently read this quote but I realized it when one day my best friend texted me and said…
‘’Hey I’m leaving the school.’’
At first I thought it to be a prank as I was used to such pranks from her.
Next second she sent me the image of her new admission card.
I went into a different state of mind without realising how to respond in that situation.
We spent almost three years together and it wasn’t a little thing for me when she said she’s leaving.
I decided not to reply her because I myself was confused what to say but I replied her…
‘’Great’’
She replied ‘’is that really great for you?’’
I replied ‘’what else I have to say now’’
Then we both went offline.
Not in exact way but we all encounter with similar situations in our life when we have to let people go from our life and that’s where we encounter with our very much important and daring life test.
Test of life that checks our ability to adapt the changes that come over our life.
It’s always recommended to take participate in the test whether you win it or lose it.
Let’s prepare our self now only because we never know when we have to come across such situations and you know life is slightly naughty sometimes.
Accept the reality
The best way to make yourself ready for handling what comes into your way of life you first need to just accept it.
When you accept things just as they are it get easier to move forward.
Today several human beings neglect this practice or they just start taking such tough times as negative or positive experiences. This way they actually put more complications to their life.
Theses interpretations add more complexity and somewhat changes the whole perception of that situation. So be brave and take a deep breath and accept the reality disregarding its negative or positive effects.
Tip
Avoiding challenges will make them appear again not soon but definitely later on the way to happiness.
Time to realize that you are the bravest
In such situations number of people feel helpless more especially when they overthink due to the stress they take about ‘not going so good of their life’.
As someone said some people lose their power just by assuming that they don’t have any.
So according to this don’t assume that you are not capable of facing such challenges. Every challenge has a way to overcome it in some way.
When something like this happens just recall all the difficult challenges that you overcame in the past and I’m sure that this will really make you feel brave and uplift your soul.
Look from different sides
We people generally observe the situation from just on side that’s only according to our own opinions.
In certain cases when we don’t try to understand things from other person’s opinion who is involved we basically misunderstand the whole situation.
To avoid this we should develop a habit of stop reacting instantly and try to look from different point of views as this makes us decide and act accordingly.
Give some time
These days we people barely have patience in us we all want quick results but this isn’t exactly what we need.
Our mind takes time to accept the new comings. Sometimes in certain cases people are left struck by such happening in those situations giving time can be the best remedy. When slowly our mind tries to accept the realty it then starts producing right decisions for better life.
Distance is not a matter
There are thousands who are living far away from their partners and still we see that love and care within them doesn’t decreases with time.
According to me if the foundation of your love and care is stronger you really don’t need to worry and devote the same love and care relentlessly and I guarantee that the distance In that case is not any matter.
Time to Focus on your growth
The one and the most beautiful relationship that a person shares is with his own self. And this relationship like others too requires our efforts to bring it up. And if we invest our efforts into it then it serves better than any other relationship. This is the only relationship that actually increases our real growth.
So never assume yourself as a minor part on this earth. You have that ability to bring the major changes and that’s just by focusing on yourself.
Thankful for reading the article Hope you liked my words. Best of luck for your further journeys!
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Finally you’re back @roopdeep_blogger with some real fact that everyone face in their journey of life 🙂 helpful valuable points been described as you have experienced this situation and realised it deeply . Great work ?? And keep your fans happy ?
Excellent.??It is very helpful..
Hatts off to your writings….. really loved you articles alot? today your this article brought tears in my eyes❤
Always keep writing in the same way.
“Distance from commerce class to medical class doesn’t matter!”
Hope your friendship live long forever
U WILL BE A POPULAR STAR SOON❤️?
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Great ? that article is very helpful for who away from the closets people .i proud of you
Thanks
Very touching lines…. reading through ur dis article makes me remind my skul days n getting separated from closed ones?
Worth it! Your effort:)
Hy? roop ?ur this article reminds my past tm whn my bsti ?leaves school tht tm i felt alone? and thought that i? had lost my special ?prson but after reading ur✌ article i made myslf? more strong gbu dear an all the bst for ur future ??shine lke a star?
Well written Roop. A good help article. However next time I expect to see a article on a lighter topic. All the best!!
Osm. Loved it. Well explained real life story in an article. Keep working hard???
It was great !! Awesome keep it up???
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Its reallly great and explained beautifully
Waiting for some more article!
Best of luck!
? heart touching yaar best article ???
Seriously have no words for it
Its just amazing and
It really reflects your personality!
Impressive! I really like your blog!! Keep going..
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keep it up sis
No words for your this article
You always come up with new thoughts
Appreciate you!☺☺
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Wonderful words
It’s true that words are the greatest weapons!
Keep going
Wonderful words
It’s true that words are the greatest weapons!
Keep going
I’m amazed that at this age you are doing such a wonderful job
You are proving that age really doesn’t matter
Your writting is so beautiful, i look forward to your writting. i wish i could write like you. You write how i feel, even if i can’t express it….???????????
God bless u sis
Worth it! Great work ?
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